IF YOU SUSPECT YOUR CHILD IS USING DRUGS….
DO:
- Obtain reliable information about drugs and know the facts.
- Involve yourself in your child’s life – get to know their friends, interests and movements: get talking.
- Become aware of your child’s problem areas. Be respectful of them and be a good listener.
- Let alcohol and drugs be a ‘normal’ topic of discussion. Ask your child his feelings on the subject, be open to differences of opinion and suggest you both need to learn.
- Ask simple, direct questions such as “Are you smoking?”, “Are you drinking?” If the answer is negative, but you still suspect drug involvement, keep the lines of communication open by remaining in touch with your child’s friends, activities and environment.
- Consult professional assistance if you need help handling the situation.
Don’t:
- Make blunt or angry accusations.
- Use moralistic judgement.
- Let things slide, hoping they will ‘go away’.
- Back down if your child resists attempt to get more involved in his/her life.
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